"The Li family's tree, it all depends on this little plum turning red."
Venerable Master Hsing Yun remembered his maternal grandmother, Madam Liu Wang, as the person he respected most and as his lifelong model. Although she had never attended school and did not have a name, she was virtuous, diligent, honest, kind, helpful, and unwilling to gossip. Her example embodied the traditional virtues he cherished and became his warmest childhood memory. Several times each month, she attended devotees' gatherings at nunneries known as Offering Services. She deeply respected monastics and repeatedly taught him that the Triple Gem was most important, possessed boundless merit, and deserved respect. He sometimes accompanied her to Dharma services.
By four or five, he could recite the Heart Sutra and understood the importance of vegetarianism. From her he learned diligence, uprightness, courage, and generosity without being calculative. Though not the eldest son, his sensible and well-behaved character led his family to respect his opinions. His grandmother's sayings about recognizing future character in childhood, including the image of the Li family's little plum turning red, both praised and encouraged him to keep advancing.